What Separates A Winner From A Loser Is...‏

The key distinction:

The guy who fails at the game is the one who goes out looking for women to make him feel good about himself.

The guy who succeeds at the game is the one who goes out and makes other people feel good about themselves.

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This first type of guy, no one wants to be around. He is needy. He is insecure. He is reaction-seeking.He will suck your energy dry in his selfish quest for your validation and approval.

This second type of guy is easy to be with. He radiates charisma and positive energy. You enjoy his company, as do your friends, and you want him around all the time. You trust him, feel comfortable with him, end up at his house at 5 a.m. wondering where all that time went.

Both guys do and say the exact same things but get a very different reaction from women because of the intent they are communicating.

WAIT a minute, you may say: What about negs? Their use seems to contradict this idea of making people feel good about themselves.

Think again.

When you give a woman who's often hit on a generic compliment, she will usually either ignore the remark or assume you're saying it because you want to sleep with her.

When you tease her and show her that you're unaffected by her beauty and demonstrate that you're out of her league - and THEN let her work to win you over and ultimately REWARD her with your approval, she will leave that night feeling good about herself. Like something special happened and she connected with somebody who appreciates her for who she REALLY is.

In short, a neg will buy you the credibility you need to sincerely compliment her later.

That said, I don't necessarily advocate negs; they are in many ways a temporary patch to stick onto your personality while you learn to possess real confidence and strength of character.

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GLOSSARY:

What Is The meaning Of "Neg"?

NEG: noun: An ambiguous statement or seemingly accidental insult delivered to a beautiful women a man has just met, with the intent of actively demonstrating to her (or her friends) a lack of interest in her.