The Keys to Dressing Well and Your Identity

What you wear ought to be an introduction to the book of you. This introduction must be intriguing enough for her to want to read your book cover to cover. Choose wisely and you are on your way to a bestseller. After all, the point of your wardrobe is to really communicate your best qualities.

DEVELOPING YOUR IDENTITY THROUGH WARDROBE

Take some time with this concept. Make a list of interesting and high value qualities that you would like a woman to know about you. Consider some of these points when compiling your list:

1. What are your hobbies and your down time
activities?

2. What's your favorite genre of music?

3. What era do you find yourself most inclined
to aesthetically or ideologically?

4. Do you have a favorite art medium, artist,
or art movement?

5. What do you do for a living?

6. What are your passions or dreams?

7. Who are your heroes in life? (historical figures, authors, family members, etc.)

8. What is your spiritual alignment?

9. Are you well traveled?

Those are just a few questions to aid your brainstorm. After you define some of these points then begin to think:

How can I subtly convey these interesting points about myself with my clothing and
accessories?

Begin to answer this question with your wardrobe, then you're demonstrating high value to women without words, but merely by entering a room.


DRESSING WELL WITH PROPER FIT

As men, we just tend to throw on clothes not giving a moment’s thought to how it makes our form look. It benefits us to think more like a woman in this regard. To get started, begin asking yourself questions like the ones below:

1. What are my best physical features and how can I highlight them with my wardrobe?

For example, do you have strong shoulders, muscular legs, a well defined chest, etc.

2. What are my least attractive physical features that I would like to disguise?

For example, do you have a bit of a beer gut, are you shorter than the average man, do you have weak shoulders, etc.

The good news is we can use fashion to make all of these features more attractive! Get in the habit of looking in a full length mirror before you go out. It doesn't make you a narcissist to take a few glances at yourself before you head out the door, it's what you ought to be doing.


THE IMPORTANCE OF THE FULL PICTURE

Look at the way your outfit is pieced all together and note if there are any places in your silhouette where there are unseemly bulges or clothing out of place that break up the intended sleek shape.

Fix these when possible. Sometimes it can be as simple as putting a cell phone in a different pocket or tucking a shirt in. Take notice of where your eyes are first drawn to on your outfit. If it isn't the area that you want people to look at first, then you should readjust.

It may mean that you change your color palette or remove an offending accessory that draws the eye away from the area you would prefer to be the first spot of focus.

Start with these simple steps and you are on your way to cutting the image women will find irresistible to notice.


=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
Look good, live good.
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=

Remember, there are many ways to generate attraction, and you shouldn't forsake any of
them. Push/Pull, DHVs, preselection, pebbles, and all of those other tools are all great...

...but none of them substitute for leaving the house looking your best.